I have always been a huge Duck Dynasty fan, there is no denying this fact. News about Phil Robertson’s suspension from the A&E network has flooded new’s feeds across the world. At first I was impressed by Phil because he stood up for what he believed in, which is not always an easy task no matter the belief. As I delved deeper into the GQ article (which is not super appropriate) I was shocked at his delivery of his sentiments rather than his beliefs. His beliefs are similar to mine, I am a Christian, I am a Mormon, I am a straight American girl, I have had many friends who are gay, and have studied the culture at Utah State University while receiving my Women’s and Gender Studies Certificate. I personally believe that being homosexual was not what God intended our purpose to be, but He sent us to earth to procreate, to multiply and replenish the earth. Physically, a homosexual couple can not do that in God’s natural way. I understand that everyone has their beliefs on this subject and I want you to know I respect that. I think the way Phil expressed his views about the difference in the “anus” and the “vagina” was not done in the most appealing or appropriate way. His statements about gays has created havoc in the cyber world that has created more animosity in our world. This sparked something in my mind that I have been fighting with for months. Homosexuality is not only about the physical intimacy, it is about the emotional connection. When you make a blanket statement like that it infers that it’s the only part of a homosexual relationship, from a LGBT standpoint that can come off demeaning… Like any heterosexual relationship there are many levels. With that in mind it has been hard for me to draw the line.
Learning to draw the line. It is hard to live in a torn world, one who wants to accept gay people and the now cultural norm and ones who do not support it at all because of their respective beliefs and values that they are entitled to. It’s true that I do not believe in supporting gay marriage, but that doesn’t mean I don’t love, respect and appreciate those who identify that way. Phil Robertson said “I would never treat anyone with disrespect just because they are different from me. We are all created by the Almighty and like Him, I love all of humanity. We would all be better off if we loved God and loved each other.” His words couldn’t ring clearer, because I do care about everyone. So when is it okay to draw the line? In our society I think everyone should respect each other and treat each other with a genuine kindness, just like our Savior Jesus Christ would and our Father in Heaven. Just because you do this does not mean you support their lifestyle choices. According to my religious beliefs it is not in line with God’s plan to be homosexual, however that is not for me to judge, it is for God to judge and he is a kind and all knowing God. I have realized that my role in all of this controversy is to hold onto my testimony of what I believe, to not let it falter at the ways of the world, and to constantly strengthen it.
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Very well said.
I guess after reading so many hateful posts and comments on this topic (from both sides) it was nice to read something much more level headed and respectful.
Oh my goodness this was wonderful. I just found out about Phil today through facebook, and I couldn’t agree with you more.
News travels fast on Facebook 🙂 Thank you for reading, it is nice to have feedback!
You cannot truly say that you love an accept gay people if you are against gay marriage. The LDS church view is so skewed in its perception of gay marriage. The whole concept is a government issue, and not a moral issue. The only reason to oppose gay marriage is because of morals, and that is not separating church and state. Good for Utah for allowing same sex marriages though!
You can and that’s what I just did. Think about an alcoholic, do I love them and care about them yes, do I agree with their actions… No… I know it’s not a side by side comparison, however it shows you that you can still love and accept someone but not support them.
You’re equating same sex marriage with alcoholism hilariously wrong and insulting. Also, guess what? alcoholism is legal. Same sex marriage isn’t in most states. Yet.
Next, according to the bible there is NO such thing as a traditional marriage between a man and a woman. That’s FALSE.
Have a great day! Let’s all try to not be bigots!! May Our Lord Tesla be with you.
Great writing! My favorite parts are where you cover up your bigotry with superficial compassion for others lifestyle choices! Keep it up!
1. bigoted attitudes; intolerance toward those who hold different opinions from oneself.
Dear C Hitchens and Harrison- I just wanted to thank you for spending time on my blog and leaving comments throughout the weekend. I wanted to provide the definition of a bigot, intolerance towards those who hold different opinions from oneself. By having an intolerance towards my belief of a traditional marriage qualifies you as a bigot. I guess we are both bigots. My compassion is not superficial, I am sorry it has come off that way.
As for the alcoholism analogy that was so appalling to you… Is it legal? Yes, but is it right?